The Way Things Are

Last week, we talked about the work of Love 146, one of the organizations we’re raising money for this Easter. Thanks to ten generous women, your comment on this post is worth $5.25 to Love 146.

It’s also worth another $5.25 to International Justice Mission, whose work we’ll focus on today. (So I’m comment-trolling again: please, leave a comment! It only takes a moment, and it’s worth money to both of these worthy organizations.)

Former U.N. War-Crimes Investigator Gary Haugen founded IJM 15 years ago with the vision of working with local legal systems to secure protection and justice for victims of abuse and oppression. IJM has a collaborative casework model in which their investigators, lawyers, and social workers intervene in individual cases of abuse. They partner with state and local authorities to achieve four goals:

victim relief (getting the victim out of the abusive situation)

perpetrator accountability (ensuring that perpetrators experience the legal consequences of their actions)

survivor aftercare (ensuring that victims have the support and resources to respond to the emotional and physical needs resulting from their abuse and to rebuild their lives)

structural transformation (strengthening communities and local justice systems to prevent abuse of other at-risk people)

IJM’s website is full of stories of undercover operations, brothel raids and stings, and legal victories for victims of oppression. They are hard stories, but hopeful.

In Terrify No More, Gary Haugen tells the story of one such undercover operation in Cambodia in 2003. (If you watch the 15th anniversary video, you will see a short clip of this rescue—and how very young some of the victims were.) I’ve taken Haugen’s words from chapter two of the book and turned them into a found poem:

The Girls of Svay Pak

Rumors of a small, lawless village—
scores of girls, even very young girls,
tiny girls, just
five and six and seven,
sold on an open market
to be used and abused by sex tourists.

We have never seen anything
like this—so many young girls
very young girls
sold and abused
raped and molested
in broad daylight—
such brutal arrogance.

Dozens and scores
of children
young women
held
against their wills,
forced
to serve sex
customers in dingy
cubicles that would look like
a very small bedroom or walk-in closet
to most Western kids—with posters
on the walls and stuffed animals
in a corner—these
are the pens where men come
to exploit them.

A western tourist in Phnom Penh
asks a taxi driver for a ride
to Svay Pak. The driver knows
what the tourist wants
but drives him anyway—
he gets a commission from
the brothel keeper for
every customer he drives
in:

a growing web of protection
around a despicable industry:
the more people who profit from it,
the more acceptance it gains,
the more normalized it becomes until

it becomes just
the way things are.

The massive and routine business
of selling and raping and molesting
children
is just

the way things are

even
among people of
goodwill.

The darkness has grown
that thick,
so thick that dozens
and scores of children
can be openly sold
to pedophiles and sadists and
it is just
the way things are.

Our mission:
to break the deadly
cycle of resignation and
despair,
to prove that it is
possible

to unravel the web
to rescue the children
to send the perpetrators to prison
to change the calculation

about what

is

possible.

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This post is part of my Stop Slavery series, a fundraiser for International Justice Mission and Love 146: for every comment, ten lovely women and I will donate a total of $10.50 ($5.25 to Love 146′s aftercare programs for girls rescued from the sex trade and another $5.25 to IJM).

Images courtesy of International Justice Mission.

  • Andrea J.

    Thanks again for these posts.

    This bit:

    “the more people who profit from it, the more acceptance it gains, the more normalized it becomes until it becomes just the way things are.”

    God doesn’t ask us to accept the status quo. There has got to be corruption at the highest levels for this to continue. It’s so sick, a perversion of resources, putting money before God.

  • KIM

    The very idea of “sex tourists” is appalling. Thank you, Kimberlee and all who have partnered with her.

  • http://imwritingtoo.blogspot.com Kristi

    Keep shedding Light in the darkness!

  • http://contemplativecottage.com Susan

    Heartbreaking. Praying for the work of IJM. Thank you for writing about this.

  • http://ncdoula.wordpress.com Laura S.

    It’s so hard to read about. Thank you for not shying away from such a difficult topic. God forbid this “becomes just the way things are.”

  • Amy

    This issue always stops me wherever my mind may otherwise be. Thanks for your commitment to take action and support those who are seeking justice.

  • Elisa

    My spirit aches for these girls. May God’s mercy be upon all affected.

  • Bobbi

    Thanks Kimberlee. Isaiah 58.

  • Meg

    We give to IJM — love them!

  • Clare

    Thank you for doing this Kimberlee, and all of you donors.

  • Mary VE

    Thank you donors. It is cool to think that these donations could directly affect the freedom, prevention, or after care of one, two, or MANY children!

  • Tammy Bailey

    Thank you for helping us to look at the things we don’t really want to see. When our eyes are open, how can not do something?

  • David Williamson

    Thank you Kimberlee for the article and awareness and your willingness to give.

  • jen

    no words….

  • Angela

    The image of stuffed animals on the floor of these girls’ “rooms” is haunting. They’re children who want to feel safe and loved. Thank God for these organizations and may He give strength to those who await rescue.

  • Kelly

    Come, Lord Jesus. Thank you for this, Kimberlee.

  • Rebecca Swanson

    This is so powerful.

  • http://www.bethanyjoycarlson.com Bethany Joy Carlson

    Thank you, Kimberlee, for continuing to raise awareness about this terrible issue.

  • Carol Conway

    Powerful poem!! I’m supporting Exodus Cry and their effort to raise awareness. Keep at it Kimberlee!! I’m proud of you!

  • http://everydayliturgy.com Thomas

    Hope springs forth from the possible. In a dark world it is always heartening to find a turn toward hope and goodness when it seems like all is lost.

  • Kate Van Pernis

    I was shocked to discover that these things also occur much closer to home– this organization has been raising awareness about girls here in Minnesota: http://www.mngirlsnotforsale.org/

    Thank you for your boldness and courage in facing this issue. Thank you, too, for the motivation you have given me to build awareness and advocate for these girls.

  • http://sarahboylewebber.blogspot.com/ Sarah Webber

    Thanks for continuing to write about this. And thank you, Lord, for IJM and all the work they do. Protect them and continue to give them hope and resources to keep fighting.

  • Carla

    Lord, please bring justice to these dens of evil. Have mercy on those that cannot advocate for themselves.

  • Glyn

    I just listened to this (from today’s NYTimes) and thought you might be interested. I love that a pretty secular journalist is willing to speak out about this in any and every venue available to him.
    http://media.willowcreek.org/

  • http://www.lynnebaab.com Lynne Baab

    Don’t know when your deadline for getting responses is, but here’s my statement of continued gratitude that you and the other generous women are doing this.